The Heterosexual Questionnaire

In The Heterosexual Questionnaire, author Martin Rochlin "reverses the questions that are very often asked of gays and lesbians by straight people". (Rochlin, 1985).  For being such a short article, I feel this questionnaire had a substantial impact on me.

The questionnaire simply and brilliantly asks the reader questions like, "What do you think caused your heterosexuality?  When and how did you first decide you were a heterosexual?" (1985).  These questions made me stop cold, smile, and think.  I think that even relatively open minded, caring people who are straight can still think that not being heterosexual is different, and other-than-me.  It was a revelation to realize how silly, ignorant, and even cruel such seemingly harmless questions were.

I am reminded of a recent news story, where the Principal of Wilson High School in Washington, D.C., recently came out as gay.  It was a triumphant event, and he was met with cheers and support from his students and community.  Even though the D.C. Council has it's faults, I was really proud to read Mayor Vincent Gray's response to the Westboro Baptist Church.

 http://www.wjla.com/articles/2014/06/pete-cahall-wilson-high-school-principal-comes-out-as-gay-during-gay-pride-celebration-103806.html

As it turned out, the protesters numbered twelve, while a joyful counter-protest numbered "in the hundreds".

 http://www.nbcwashington.com/news/local/Westboro-Church-Plans-Protest-Outside-Wilson-High-School-262352461.html

Diversity is all about acknowledging and embracing everything that makes us all individuals.  Hopefully, we are well on our way to being a society where everyone can be themselves.

Reference:

 Rochlin, M. (1985). The Heterosexual Questionnaire. Lesbian and Gay Issues: A Resource Manual for Social Workers.